How to Choose the Right Executor
A sensitive decision made simple.
Selection of an executor, or personal representative as it is known in some states, can often times be a highly personal decision that takes a good amount of thought. The function of an executor is to collect your property when you die and distribute that property at the conclusion of the estate administration process (whether through formal or informal procedures). While it is easy to generalize the responsibilities of an executor to be purely those of a collector and liquidator of the estate property, there is a distinct management responsibility imposed on executors as well. This includes managing relationships, often times between highly emotional family members, preservation of funds and property, and detailed recordkeeping. So what factors should you consider when deciding on an executor?
Residency
As a matter of course, some jurisdictions will not appoint a nonresident as executor of an estate. For example, Wisconsin disqualifies nonresidents who do not appoint a resident agent to receive all official documents; but courts may also refuse appointment of the nonresident executor solely on that factor even if a resident agent is appointed. However, the constitutionality of such a denial based solely on the state of residency has been challenged before, and , absent other concerns about an individual’s fitness to represent your estate, the risk of choosing an out of state resident to serve is minimal.
Familiarity
It can be beneficial to name an executor that has previous experience with administering an estate. For example, older family members may have been through the process with previously deceased relatives and may be better suited to navigate the complexities of the estate administration process without an attorney. The downside, of course, is that older family members may be at a higher risk to predecease you, so there is no guarantee they will be around when the time comes to perform their duties. Naming a family attorney is another option, especially one that is well versed in the probate code of your state.
An attorney likely will have more experience dealing with common issues that may arise during the administration process such as valuing assets, communicating with stubborn financial institutions and filing the appropriate paperwork at the correct times to keep the process rolling and hassle-free for the beneficiaries and the rest of the family. However, caution should be taken prior to appointing an attorney to serve as executor, as his or her fees may be higher than that which would be acceptable to a non-attorney (fees for a mid-level estate could range anywhere from 1%-4% of the gross value of assets).
Honesty and Trustworthiness
One of the most important qualities to seek in an executor is honesty. The executor is the sole party responsible for ensuring that all of your property gets to the places and people to which you want it to go. It is not unheard of for a carelessly appointed executor to squander a substantial portion of an estate or misappropriate assets for his or her own benefit. Typically close family members are good options to serve as executor because of your familiarity and close relationship. However, if you aren’t incredibly close to siblings or children, don’t be afraid to appoint someone outside the family. You can always tell them it’s because you don’t want to burden them upon your passing.
Organization
Administering an estate is no small task, even for estates with few assets. Much like most areas of law, estate administration- or probate- is a complex web of statutes, regulations, local rules and preferences, and seemingly endless paperwork that must be filed in a very specific order. In addition, no matter how hard we try in life, chances are that all of us would like to be a little more organized. Often times it can be a challenge for an executor to track down every asset, account, and insurance policy that you may have owned during life. For those reasons, it’s important to choose an executor with tremendous organizational skills. An attorney can always help with the nitty gritty of dealing with court filings and creditor notices, but the ultimate responsibility for ensuring that everything is done appropriately and completely falls to the executor.
People Skills
Emotions can run high following the death of a loved one. Otherwise close-knit family members can quickly turn against each other, especially when an inheritance is involved. For this reason, sometimes it may not be wise to name one child or sibling to serve as executor over the others in a family; however, ultimately it is up to you to determine whether such a choice may lead to disdain in the family.
Choosing an executor is not an easy decision and not one that should be made lightly. Numerous factors should be considered and the overall effect on the family of one choice over another is important to remain mindful of. No two families are alike, so ultimately the choice is yours. But, should you want help in considering your options, an estate planning attorney can be an asset as you make these very important decisions.
Michael F. Brennan is an attorney at the Virtual Attorney™ a virtual law office helping clients in Illinois, Wisconsin, and Minnesota with estate planning and small business legal needs. He can be reached at michael.brennan@mfblegal.com with questions or comments, or check out his website at www.thevirtualattorney.com .
The information contained herein is intended for informational purposes only and is not legal advice, nor is it intended to create an attorney-client relationship. For specific legal advice regarding a specific legal issue please contact me or another attorney for assistance.

